You propose on a saturday, then the next day....??
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lol as if I needed to add any MORE info,.........On my myspace profile I had a bunch of junk in there bout her and us and how wonderful we were together n what not. A couple days ago I changed the profile up, new song, new background, new descriptions but nothin suggestive see for yourself http://www.myspace.com/600kat05 but when she saw it she called me from work n was like "why'd you completely take me outta your profile?" I said "I didn't, you're still number 1 in my top friends" to which she said "well that's messed up that you'd take me completely outta your profile." to which I SAID, and quickly shut her up with......."Well at least i had somethin about you in mine, there was nothing in yours about me besides you bein in a relationship"
I only ask 'cause if you're living together and you're buying a place .....whoever's name is on the loan has to stay .
Same if you're renting , whoever has the name on the lease has to stay .....break lease and it's on your credit ......been there , done that .
Same if you're renting , whoever has the name on the lease has to stay .....break lease and it's on your credit ......been there , done that .
If you're renting together, if I recall correctly you are, one of you needs to move out and fast...don't delay. I told the girl I was dating and went through a disrespectful relationship with over the phone that me and all my stuff would be moved out by the time she got home. And that was that.
Take a close look at your lease and explain the situation to the apt. complex mgmt. for what it's worth. In my case both names were on the apt. and they gave her the option to stay, get a roommate, or move.
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Good call.............8:30am the next morning?
Uh, Dood ,wake up.
I give everyone I date the benefit of the doubt. My downfall I guess, I need to learn to be an #######. After all, they get the good women lol. I mean seriously, don't ya always hear that? A woman you're interested in or more often friends with who is a great woman, her guy treats her like SHIZZ
Well that simplifys things .......If you have made up your mind , then "her" stuff <span style='font-size:15pt;line-height:100%'>has to go !</span>
Two ways to do it ......
1) Tell her to leave , tell her why and deal with the wild show to follow .
2) Pack up all the stuff while she's gone and leave it outside , with a note .
She'll still have the key though !
I disagree RedKat ! There's someone out there for everyone !
Nice guys get the good ones too .
RK, once you tell her the engagement is off you must tell her to move out for the better. She may likely cry and try to manipulate you into changing your mind by making you feel guilty, but if you've made up your mind that this girl is not the ONE, and I think you have, be strong and follow through. It's better for you and in the long run for her as well.
Regarding the nice guy thing, I firmly believe there is something to that. I've known quite a few attractive quality girls who have married guys who were very nice, but too damn nice and by that I mean a mousey kind of nice. And eventually they were wanting for something more out of their husband.
IMO and from my experience, most girls want a guy who is not going to take any crap when called for, has strong opinions and can logically make their argument. Not an A-hole who breaks the law, just someone who takes charge in a situation.
It looks like this girl is running all over you and she knows it and to the point where she probably lost respect for you because you said, "Okay, go ahead, I'll sit here at home w/ my crank in my hand."
The more I review your situation you really need to break things off right quick. Like a band-aid.. a quick sharp break.
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If U don't want to deal with it , find your own place and leave while she's working . Get buddies to help you . Surely someone has a truck ?
RK, what is her mindset right now? Does she think everything is hunky-dory between you two or does she think you two are on the verge of going separate ways, breaking off engagement, etc.?
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