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Been there too buddy. Get a lawyer, the best in town cuz if you don't she will. Never get angry and let the lawyer earn their keep. Stay strong.

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the property laws are definitely in my favor, trying to keep lawyers from getting involved. they get expensive. then the lawyers end up with most everything.
 
Sorry to hear about your woes ogre, stay strong and God Bless you Brother.

Jer 29:11: For I know the plans I have for you,â€￾ declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Rom 8:28: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Phil 4:13: I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Prov 3:5: Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
Prov 3:6: in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Phil 4:6: Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Acts 18:10: For I am with you, and no one is going to attack and harm you, because I have many people in this city.â€￾
Phil 4:7: And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Josh 1:9: Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.â€￾
Isa 40:31: but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

Best regards Stretch
 
I say if it was meant to be, then it would have worked out.I hope you dont have kids because its really hard on them.Took me years to get over my parents divorse.Look foward, keep you head up and it will get better.
 
Matthew count your lucky stars you don't have kids between the two of you.
Keep your inner strength and trust in the lord to provide you future happiness.

Who knows maybe something like this will come knocking on your tent...
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Lots of great advice has been given, so I will just add a ((hug)) of support and prayers for things to work out for you. Keep your chin up.
 
Don't judge a book by it's camo cover.
You never know until you say hello. :)



Ps....you see how quick your recovering Ogre? Your already talking about other women :)
 
Like I have said before. When one door closes another will open. Now is the time to hang onto your Faith !

Robert
 
another woman is the only way to get over the last one. but neither one of us are 100% sure it's over. the not knowing is the worst. if i knew it was over, 100%, i could move on. but she can't give me that, because she doesn't know. i know that God knows what he's doing, but would it kill the guy to shoot me a text or something?
 
Just like a woman not to be able to make up her mind (sorry ladies, but you know it's true). Don't give her too much time or she'll use that as power over you; if she really can't make her freakin mind up, then make it for her and move on. Marriage has to be a 100% committment by BOTH parties.
 
i suppose you're right. well, papers aren't signed yet, so i suppose anything can happen. the weaker i am, the stronger God must be to get me through these trials.
 
From personal experience if you make it to "I really don't know" your way beyond being on the ropes. I think too many people believe "I really don't know" and "I am evaluating my other options" are interchangeable statements.
 
you know what, i try my best to follow the bible, and to Jesus, marriage is sacred. I can't stop trying until it's actually over. plus, the creed of my next unit is "Nightstalkers don't Quit", what kind of prospect would i be if i cut and run when marriage gets difficult. i appreciate the support and advice either way from all of you, just pray that God gives me the guidance and strength i need to make her happy again.
 
ogre said:
when life throws you a curve, drag a knee...

so anyway, if i end up at ft. lewis instead of campbell, i'm thinking about maybe picking up an F800GS for DD duties in the rain.
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If you end up at Ft. Lewis you will be very close to me. We have some of the best back country riding in the US up here. I'd be happy to buy lunch and share some home grown knowledge of the area not to mention the track time available in the area. If the rain during the winter months don't drive you insane the summer months are well worth enjoying.

Let me know if and when you are coming!
 
ogre said:
you know what, i try my best to follow the bible, and to Jesus, marriage is sacred. I can't stop trying until it's actually over. plus, the creed of my next unit is "Nightstalkers don't Quit", what kind of prospect would i be if i cut and run when marriage gets difficult. i appreciate the support and advice either way from all of you, just pray that God gives me the guidance and strength i need to make her happy again.
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YOU cannot make HER happy. That's a fantasy! Happiness comes from within, it's not posession one has that can be given to another. You cannot make her love you and the harder you try the farther you will drive her away. No one can make you feel better about this emotional detachment other than you.

The only advise I can give you now that she has made it clear she wants to seperate herself from you is to make yourself scarce. Don't contact her by any means. If she is playing games she'll be back on your doorstep as soon as she thinks she has lost you. If she makes no effort then there was no hope of saving the relationship anyway. Most of the time when a woman leaves a relationship they already have another prospect on their mind.

I feel the pain you are going through but the longer you hang on the more painful it becomes!
 
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