Worst time/way you have ever been broken up with?

Well, im only 21 and yes i am way too young to think about future plans. But here is my story.

Started dating this chick in highschool (preachers daughter), everything was fine and dandy. Lost my virginity to the girl and everything. Well, everything was great for about 2 yrs (so it seams). She graduates and is going off to college, and at her Freshman Orientation, she calls me one night and tells me that she had cheated on me, and it wasn't the first time. I go crazy, tell her its over and crap. Then she goes on the guilt trip and wants to get back with me and all, but I dont, knowing once a cheater, always a cheater. So a couple weeks of her calling and trying to get back together, she tells me that she was pregnant. I'm like oh crap, there goes my life, but turns out that she already had an abortion. Well to sum up, shes dating one of my buddies from highschool, and I dont talk to her anymore. She seems happy, but I still havent found anything past a friend with benifits.
 
Well this thread is a tough subject for me at this time. As I'm staring at divorce papers on my kitchen table as I type this.
Only thing I can say is that for those of you that got shat on....if it ended quickly...be glad! I have wasted the last 5yrs of my life trying to get some type of resolution w/ this woman. During that time, you are just kind of drifting along...like in a fog. And you have no idea what the final destination is.
Well now that the papers have been served ....it becomes the friggin $$$$ game. And with no more left to spend on this right now....I'm back to where I started. LIMBO :banghead:

For those of you that have loving partners and a great relationship :bowdown: More power to you.
Very easy for me...I will never get married again.
 
Worst Way

I was dating 2 girls at the same time, Neither of them knew about the other, One was sweet as could be the other a Biker kinda girl. I woke one morning with the Biker girl shaking me to wake up, As I awoke she told me as she was coming in she noticed someone had broken into my car.

I got dressed went outside and my car was a mess, ALL Windows broken, Tires Flat, When we walked out and I saw it she got in her car and said. ( Maybe Dawn did it ) Dawn being the name of the other girl.
 
Worst Way

I was dating 2 girls at the same time, Neither of them knew about the other, One was sweet as could be the other a Biker kinda girl. I woke one morning with the Biker girl shaking me to wake up, As I awoke she told me as she was coming in she noticed someone had broken into my car.

I got dressed went outside and my car was a mess, ALL Windows broken, Tires Flat, When we walked out and I saw it she got in her car and said. ( Maybe Dawn did it ) Dawn being the name of the other girl.

Well at least she did not kick over the busa...
 
Im 24 and had been living with my now ex gf for 2 1/2 years. What I thought was a great girl, played video games, tattoos, great lookin, rode, did a lot of nice stuff for me. I start noticing that shes starting to see a casual acquaintance of mine quite often. She sits up in bed one night and says I dont know if i can be with you anymore. I say thats fine go home and think about it. She never came back. Left me with the apartment, all the bills, everything. Long story short I find out that while im at work (I busted my ass so that we could have our apartment and she could go to school so she could better herself for our future) she has been taking my car that I paid for and paid the insurance maintenance etc. so she could get to school and not have any bills to worry about, she had been taking it to go to his place while im at work.

The day she left she started sleeping at his place every night after, and is now sleeping around. Funny eh, we were talking about marriage soon as well. kinda messed up. So now I have 3 more months left of rent to cover and am pretty irritated and betrayed feeling. All I can say is thank god it happened now and not after I married her.
 
I was married the first time for 1 year 3 months. She got the huge Wedding she always wanted, but didn't want the marriage part that went w/ it.

She started going out w/ her "Friends." (Funny how everyone lost their name & became a friend). Well she finally agreed to go to see a marriage counselor & called me at work afterward. I managed & owned restaurants so my hours sucked. She said it was great & should help us. She also said she was going over to a "friends" house & out for a while. I get off at 11:30 pm & call her, no answer on the cell. I get home at 12:00 am & she said she would be home by then. No Wife. I was up all night calling & pacing & finally at 6:00 am I changed the locks on the house (I had some rent houses so I always had extra lock sets), cancelled credit cards, changed voicemail & alerted the Police. etc.

She FINALLY calls me at 7:30 am. "I am so sorry, I drank too much & must have passed out". Funny thing is she didn't drink. Well this is 1999 & caller ID had just come out. I see the phone # & it is her cell. She says she is calling me from her friend's, on her friend's home phone ... Now that is FUNNY. Why does it show YOUR cell# on caller ID???? It got real quiet, then I LET THAT ***** HAVE IT. :banghead:

It was a very messy long drawn out & EXPENSIVE Divorce. Turns out she was screwing some Chiropcator & later married him. :moon:

A few years later I met & married the most Wonderful Woman on the planet & we have been together for 8 years. She is my best friend, soul mate, riding partner, trackday partner, etc. :cheerleader:

You sometimes have to wade through SH%& to get to the best. :beerchug:
 
I was married the first time for 1 year 3 months. She got the huge Wedding she always wanted, but didn't want the marriage part that went w/ it.

She started going out w/ her "Friends." (Funny how everyone lost their name & became a friend). Well she finally agreed to go to see a marriage counselor & called me at work afterward. I managed & owned restaurants so my hours sucked. She said it was great & should help us. She also said she was going over to a "friends" house & out for a while. I get off at 11:30 pm & call her, no answer on the cell. I get home at 12:00 am & she said she would be home by then. No Wife. I was up all night calling & pacing & finally at 6:00 am I changed the locks on the house (I had some rent houses so I always had extra lock sets), cancelled credit cards, changed voicemail & alerted the Police. etc.

She FINALLY calls me at 7:30 am. "I am so sorry, I drank too much & must have passed out". Funny thing is she didn't drink. Well this is 1999 & caller ID had just come out. I see the phone # & it is her cell. She says she is calling me from her friend's, on her friend's home phone ... Now that is FUNNY. Why does it show YOUR cell# on caller ID???? It got real quiet, then I LET THAT ***** HAVE IT. :banghead:

It was a very messy long drawn out & EXPENSIVE Divorce. Turns out she was screwing some Chiropcator & later married him. :moon:

A few years later I met & married the most Wonderful Woman on the planet & we have been together for 8 years. She is my best friend, soul mate, riding partner, trackday partner, etc. :cheerleader:

You sometimes have to wade through SH%& to get to the best. :beerchug:[/QUOTE


That is no joke, I wont go into the details of my last break up, however, I will say no matter hard you try, sometimes things are just not meant to be. My ex cheated on me mulitple times(I found out after we separated) and I was just supposed to get over it, no big deal. Long story short, she hates my guts now and will always hate me and I am still paying for it. In fact, I have a meeting this afternoon with a mediator, (yes these are common and expensive) because we cant be civil and make our own agreements.
Thank God for the woman I am married to, my Juli, my best friend, the only woman that truly has ever really loved me.
 
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A few years ago, I was dating a girl that was in my opinion "the ultimate girl". She was built like a perfect ten model but loved to drink beers with me and have a steak regularly. She was very down to earth and was into everything I was into, even just wrenching on the car on the weekend while sipping a brew. Her friends were all stunningly beautiful and we would regularly have gatherings at my big house. The parties were like what you see at a club on South Miami Beach. I would get so relaxed that I'd find myself dancing with some of her friends which she didn't seem to mind since she was always a social butterfly herself. Some of those gatherings would last through the night and end up in the hot tub out back in the gazebo.. Lots of champagne would lubricate the guests at that point and things would get a little out of control. She tended to be the center of attention and would put on a show by "playing" with a hot female friend while the rest of us watched. The hot friend would make deep eye contact with me while this was happening. One night we all ended up together after the rest of the guests left. It was life changing experience that happened a few more times over the ensuing weeks. Unfortunately, the intimacy had cooled down between my girlfriend and I after this happened. She came clean one night after too much wine that she thought she was into girls and wanted to move in with the hot friend.. They were together for a few weeks before her hot friend started coming over to my place for some special attention. Her hot friend ended up realizing that she preferred men over women and came to stay with me for several months before we went our seperate ways..
 
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A few years ago, I was dating a girl that was in my opinion "the ultimate girl". She was built like a perfect ten model but loved to drink beers with me and have a steak regularly. She was very down to earth and was into everything I was into, even just wrenching on the car on the weekend while sipping a brew. Her friends were all stunningly beautiful and we would regularly have gatherings at my big house. The parties were like what you see at a club on South Miami Beach. I would get so relaxed that I'd find myself dancing with some of her friends which she didn't seem to mind since she was always a social butterfly herself. Some of those gatherings would last through the night and end up in the hot tub out back in the gazebo.. Lots of champagne would lubricate the guests at that point and things would get a little out of control. She tended to be the center of attention and would put on a show by "playing" with a hot female friend while the rest of us watched. The hot friend would make deep eye contact with me while this was happening. One night we all ended up together after the rest of the guests left. It was life changing experience that happened a few more times over the ensuing weeks. Unfortunately, the intimacy had cooled down between my girlfriend and I after this happened. She came clean one night after too much wine that she thought she was into girls and wanted to move in with the hot friend.. They were together for a few weeks before her hot friend started coming over to my place for some special attention. Her hot friend ended up realizing that she preferred men over women and came to stay with me for several months before we went our seperate ways..

I'm pretty sure you were suppose to start that off with "Dear Penthouse" and include pictures. :rulez::laugh:
 
A few years ago, I was dating a girl that was in my opinion "the ultimate girl". She was built like a perfect ten model but loved to drink beers with me and have a steak regularly. She was very down to earth and was into everything I was into, even just wrenching on the car on the weekend while sipping a brew. Her friends were all stunningly beautiful and we would regularly have gatherings at my big house. The parties were like what you see at a club on South Miami Beach. I would get so relaxed that I'd find myself dancing with some of her friends which she didn't seem to mind since she was always a social butterfly herself. Some of those gatherings would last through the night and end up in the hot tub out back in the gazebo.. Lots of champagne would lubricate the guests at that point and things would get a little out of control. She tended to be the center of attention and would put on a show by "playing" with a hot female friend while the rest of us watched. The hot friend would make deep eye contact with me while this was happening. One night we all ended up together after the rest of the guests left. It was life changing experience that happened a few more times over the ensuing weeks. Unfortunately, the intimacy had cooled down between my girlfriend and I after this happened. She came clean one night after too much wine that she thought she was into girls and wanted to move in with the hot friend.. They were together for a few weeks before her hot friend started coming over to my place for some special attention. Her hot friend ended up realizing that she preferred men over women and came to stay with me for several months before we went our seperate ways..

And then you woke up.....:whistle:
 
A few years later I met & married the most Wonderful Woman on the planet & we have been together for 8 years. She is my best friend, soul mate, riding partner, trackday partner, etc. :cheerleader:

You sometimes have to wade through SH%& to get to the best. :beerchug:

At least this part of your post gives me some hope.
 
Okay, the truth is that she said I was laying too much pipe. It was that she just couldn't handle the size of the package and the stamina I was bringing to the table. So she thought she could take a break by being with a female instead.
:yes:
What do you do in that situation? :dunno:
 
Okay, the truth is that she said I was laying too much pipe. It was that she just couldn't handle the size of the package and the stamina I was bringing to the table. So she thought she could take a break by being with a female instead.
:yes:
What do you do in that situation? :dunno:

Say :bs::bs::bs:



:laugh:
 
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