Worst time/way you have ever been broken up with?
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TruWrecks
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You asked, so we answered.
BTW. The ex ingonered Father's Day, our anniversary, and my birthday leading up to the divorce letter. She even went as far as to sayto me directly "Thank God you didn't have children." I lost all respect and trust when she made that comment.
So, between the ex, my mom and dad with health issues, my back problems preventing me from doing much and not having any income since late July, my life pretty much sucks and there doesn't appear to be anything worth sticking around for. If it wasn't for having to take care of my dogs everyday I would have just laid in bed and rotted away quietly weeks ago. I know there is more to life, but depression has been kicking my butt and i've grown tired of fighting with it.
Okay, the truth is that she said I was laying too much pipe. It was that she just couldn't handle the size of the package and the stamina I was bringing to the table. So she thought she could take a break by being with a female instead.
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What do you do in that situation?
Show up in drag
bkstg1
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I dated the same girl for 7 yrs well she was invited to be the maid of honor in her best friends wedding... I being the good boyfriend ask if I should get a tux or just wear a nice outfit... well she started acting weird and the closer and closer it got to the wedding the further and further she was distancing herself from me... well wedding weekend comes I bought a new outfit to wear and find out the day before the wedding Im not allowed to come seeing the place will be "too packed" and the dinner was "100 dollars a plate" well I offer to pay 500 just to see my lovely gf be apart of something so special and see her all dressed up... well still no dice... she comes over before the wedding and lets me see her all dressed up then leaves... well no word from her that night and 2 days later shes still acting weird so I go see her... shes acting really weird but wont say anything then tells me its best I go home... no your dumped no goodbye just kinda ended it like that... yup a few months later I find out shes dating the best man in that wedding and then later find out she got married to him and has a kid with him now... it just blew my mind cause it was completely out of left field she was the love of my life and just ended without any closer whatsoever... I hit the bottle pretty heavy after that seeing my grandma died a few weeks later... but now we are kinda friendly after 5+ yrs of hardly not talking at all... sadly shes not happy with the guy at all and works 2 jobs while he works part time while she pays all the bills for the house and stuff... some might be happy with that outcome but in all reality it breaks my heart... we still chat once in a while and everytime I get choaked up and have to make an excuse to why I have to get off the phone... I would love to be the man to sweep her off her feet again... but I made alot of bad decisions during those years away from each other and theres no way I could go back to her with all my issues and problems... O well sorry so long...
Hey Snow, don't let past mistakes stand in the way of being happy.
Speaking from experience, my high school girl friend and I had a pretty rough break up. We kept seeing each other for about 2 years after high school before we started having problems. Mostly because of me and the both of us being young. We said some things we shouldn't have and done somethings wrong. We left each other very angry and I didn't see her for another 4 or 5 years. She came around at one point when I was married and had a 1 year old daughter to see if I would get back together with her, she was seeing a guy that asked her to marry him and said that she thought it should always have been us.
Because of my stupid pride and the fact that I had a family I was none to nice about my answer. The problem was all I ever did was think about her and how bad I wanted her back. But as I said "pride". She moved to California and stayed there for 15 years. Well after 22 years of marriage and finally realizing that I had been miserable for the past 8-10, I decided I couldn't do it anymore. I left with nothing but my Busa and clothes. I walked away from the house, the cars, the money, and a business. At 44 years of age let me tell you, it aint easy.
I found the old high school girl friend,she moved back to Cleveland 5 years ago and I had no idea she was back. We are together again and I have not been this happy since she and I were in high school. She never got married, never had kids. It turns out she thought of me all that time too. My point is don't let mistakes made by either of you stand in the way of potential happiness. She would have to leave her husband, but who knows. I wasted 20 + years of time with the love of my life because I let pride and guilt over what I had done stand in the way. I'm not saying break up her marriage, just tell her how you feel, move forward in the proper way, and see what happens.
Takeuon
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Tru.....if you & I got together & we'd just be a regular ball of joy.
I feel your pain man. I just keep asking when I'll make it out the other side. Because I sure as sh*t feel like I'm being pulled through an endless knothole.
Cookie
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Takeuon
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I thought mine was funny. I guess poopy jokes are not funny here.
Nah...it was pretty funny Cookie
Especially if they are SUPER HOT you know what I mean....you just can't picture it (nor do you want to!). The two just don't go together.
SnowBeltChamp
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bkstg1 - thanks for the advice man and Im glad to see things ended up working out for you in the end ! I sometimes think something like that will happen... and its so weird when we talk she always says things like "I always wonder what if" and it messes my head up even more so I drink even more lol... O well one day I might have the guts to tell her I still love her and care but right now Im in no place to do that... Crazy your in Cleveland seeing Im here too
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Nah...it was pretty funny Cookie
Especially if they are SUPER HOT you know what I mean....you just can't picture it (nor do you want to!). The two just don't go together.
I know what you mean. Long time ago, I was just told one time that if you ever want to get rid of one,, just open the door on them whilst they're right in the middle of the task! That vision would never leave you,, no matter how many different outfits they brought home from Victoria's Secret!
2 years married, we were great together till we lived together. We both worked an we both decided to stop wasting anymore of each others time.
We went our separate ways, no kids so no child support, she tried for spouse support didn't fly with the judge. Got away free an clear. I took my cloths my TV an said you can have everything else, toss or burn the pictures of us if you like. It will not happen again, if it starts to go to the "lets get married" conversation or "lets move in together" it's over, it's time for us to move on cause we looking for different things from life atm.Well maybe thats not funny but I got to laugh my ass off in court when she wanted support an got owned
Well I myself am a well documented crazy magnet. For some reason crazy people seek me out (hope its not the birds of a feather thing) I even had a couple of stalkers. The first time I got a date with a beautifull woman that wasn't crazy I married her It's been 20 years now.
No, it doesn't. So sorry.
Congrats on Juli. She is a very nice lady and it's easy to tell she loves you.I was married the first time for 1 year 3 months. She got the huge Wedding she always wanted, but didn't want the marriage part that went w/ it.
She started going out w/ her "Friends." (Funny how everyone lost their name & became a friend). Well she finally agreed to go to see a marriage counselor & called me at work afterward. I managed & owned restaurants so my hours sucked. She said it was great & should help us. She also said she was going over to a "friends" house & out for a while. I get off at 11:30 pm & call her, no answer on the cell. I get home at 12:00 am & she said she would be home by then. No Wife. I was up all night calling & pacing & finally at 6:00 am I changed the locks on the house (I had some rent houses so I always had extra lock sets), cancelled credit cards, changed voicemail & alerted the Police. etc.
She FINALLY calls me at 7:30 am. "I am so sorry, I drank too much & must have passed out". Funny thing is she didn't drink. Well this is 1999 & caller ID had just come out. I see the phone # & it is her cell. She says she is calling me from her friend's, on her friend's home phone ... Now that is FUNNY. Why does it show YOUR cell# on caller ID???? It got real quiet, then I LET THAT ***** HAVE IT.
It was a very messy long drawn out & EXPENSIVE Divorce. Turns out she was screwing some Chiropcator & later married him.
A few years later I met & married the most Wonderful Woman on the planet & we have been together for 8 years. She is my best friend, soul mate, riding partner, trackday partner, etc.
You sometimes have to wade through SH%& to get to the best.[/QUOTE
That is no joke, I wont go into the details of my last break up, however, I will say no matter hard you try, sometimes things are just not meant to be. My ex cheated on me mulitple times(I found out after we separated) and I was just supposed to get over it, no big deal. Long story short, she hates my guts now and will always hate me and I am still paying for it. In fact, I have a meeting this afternoon with a mediator, (yes these are common and expensive) because we cant be civil and make our own agreements.
Thank God for the woman I am married to, my Juli, my best friend, the only woman that truly has ever really loved me.
Cookie
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Well, yes it could, Dave. You still have your son and you to carry on.
I am truly sorry for your loss, but it can always get worse. Never say that, because just when you think it cannot,,, the laws of averages will prove you wrong and surely will get worse!
Please don't carry misery and blame throughout your life,,, Happiness is what your wonderful wife would want ,,, for her,,, for your son,,, for you!
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